Valentine's Day gifts: To me, from me

I don't know about any of you, but I have never received jewelry or any "luxury item" for Valentine's Day. In fact, more and more I'm noticing that the men I know are simply stating, "I hate Valentine's Day" or "I shouldn't have to have a special day to express my feelings." Are these statements legit, or are they just a way of getting out of giving a Valentine's Day gift?





This year, I think I'll stop wondering (ok, obsessing) over whether or not I'll get a V-Day gift from someone special. It's about time I just buy something for myself. Valentine's Day is about love, and I really love myself. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true. I work hard and do so much, I might as well reward myself. Plus, what better way to stay a happy single on a "couples" day than to go shopping?!?





Now I need to choose what to buy. As you all know, I've been eyeing my mom's moissanite earrings. In fact, they're my top choice for my little gift to myself. I checked the price, and they're on sale at JCPenney. They're also available at a number of different retailers, so I'll have to browse to see what style I want. But I think I'll go with the classic stud earring. What do you think? They're pretty gorgeous. I think I'd be happy even without a man with these earrings on V-Day ;)

Now, I can't say these are my only option. I also need a black bag, preferably a designer handbag. I've been really picky, though, and I can't quite find what I want just yet. I want medium-size doctor bag style in black leather with some metail detailing. Hmm. It also has to zip on the top (living in the city, you never know who'll try and stick their hand in your bag and reach for your wallet). This "self-gift" is highly dependent on if I can find what I want.

Finally, I'd like to go on a trip. But I think I'll hold off on this one until my birthday in a couple months. My job offers a vacation day on all employee's birthdays! Plus I have some vacation time to take off also. Maybe a long weekend to Vegas? Sure would beat this awful snowy windy Chicago weather :(

I'm curious. Are any of you ladies out there getting yourself a Valentine's Day gift? If so, what are you purchasing?