Super Bowl Sunday is just a few days away. Unfortunately this year we don't have our Chicago Bears representing, but...oh well. It's still a fun tradition to host or attend a party.
The thing is, Super Bowl parties tend to be so masculine, even though a lot of times there are many women present too. So how can we even things out? Do we have to drink beer, ogle the cheerleaders and scantily clad women in the lingerie bowl, and belch loudly upon finishing our chips & dip? There must be another way!
A few years ago, a friend gave me a book of retro-fab women's cocktails. One of them was an anti-Super Bowl beverage (don't remember the name right now, but it looked good!). With the big game coming up this weekend, I just thought about the book and decided this might be a good time to elaborate on ways to keep the day fun but also feminine.
First off, it's definitely an occasion for casual attire, but you don't have to sacrifice style! I think jeans are an absolute must, but don't be afraid to pair them with some fun heels (check out this delightful example), and don't forget a jersey made for women! Here's a NY Giants jersey, because they're the team I'm rooting for. Not that into one team or the other? Keep it neutral with a regular top in a fun color. Hot pink? Sure, why not! Finally, don't overdo it on the jewelry, but there's still a way to add a little sparkle to that sporty outfit--how about these versatile hoops? Looks like they're on sale too. A good buy to wear over and over again.
Next, let's address the food and drink situation. As much as you may want to just go with beer/pizza option (which is fine, by the way), if you're hosting, you may want to reconsider. Adding a few more options for your girlfriends is a considerate move they're sure to thank you for (especially if they're still trying to stick to a New Year's no-junk-food resolution!). Think about adding some a fun, fruity punch, so you don't have to constantly mix drinks, a lo-cal club soda option, and a couple more healthy dishes, like this festive salad or these veggie tacos minus the sour cream - yum!
Finally, how are you going to spend all those hours? Are you and your girlfriends actually going to watch the whole game? Maybe. But if not, here are some ways to pass the time:
- Make some bets: guys versus girls.
- Turn halftime into game time! Bring out your favorite board game and play.
- Manicures, anyone?
- Bake some brownies to enjoy during the second half!
- Once the game is up, you don't have to sit and listen to the guys recap the entire game. Pop in your favorite chick flick and turn it into a girls' night.
Here's hoping your Super Bowl party is super fun and feminine!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Homebound!
Here in Chicago the weather has been, well, not so nice lately. It's the middle of January, and it's been snowing. When it's not snowing, it's only reached a high of about 10 or 15. The less-than-ideal winter weather (or even if it's just raining) drastically reduces your options for fun. But just because you're inside doesn't mean there's nothing to do! I've realized that I have several activities that not only keep me busy, but help me relax and unwind--as well as avoid the mundane indoor chores like laundry and cleaning.
I have compiled a Top 5 list of my favorite ways to enjoy the indoors. Since I'm a single gal, these ideas don't require anyone else to participate--they're just for you!
1. Take-out & a movie - By far the laziest of the top 5, this option requires little activity and is still oh-so-satisfying. For take-out, I enjoy a good pizza with red wine, or Thai/Chinese and white wine. For movies, I love a good chick flick that's not too predictible or mindless (if that's possible).
2. Catch up on reading - It's quite sad that reading is something I have to set aside time to do. But once I really get into a good book, I'm glued to it. I love suspense/mystery that have an element of history to them.
3. Mini-spa - Set up a mini-spa experience for yourself at home. Light some candles, play some relaxing music and enjoy a bath. Polish your nails, moisturize your skin, indulge in whatever little beauty routine you like but don't usually have time for.
4. Practice your hobby - I've studied piano for about 15 years, so I love having a couple hours to sit down and play. Whether you paint, sew, scrapbook, do yoga...this is a nice time to be able to enjoy your hobby.
5. Cook or bake - Try something new! Whether you cook a meal or bake a delicious dessert, it's a lot of fun and you have a treat at the end. My favorite place to browse for recipes is www.epicurious.com, where they have everything you could possibly want (ok, maybe not everything, but definitely all things food-related!)
Have fun inside this weekend :)
I have compiled a Top 5 list of my favorite ways to enjoy the indoors. Since I'm a single gal, these ideas don't require anyone else to participate--they're just for you!
1. Take-out & a movie - By far the laziest of the top 5, this option requires little activity and is still oh-so-satisfying. For take-out, I enjoy a good pizza with red wine, or Thai/Chinese and white wine. For movies, I love a good chick flick that's not too predictible or mindless (if that's possible).
2. Catch up on reading - It's quite sad that reading is something I have to set aside time to do. But once I really get into a good book, I'm glued to it. I love suspense/mystery that have an element of history to them.
3. Mini-spa - Set up a mini-spa experience for yourself at home. Light some candles, play some relaxing music and enjoy a bath. Polish your nails, moisturize your skin, indulge in whatever little beauty routine you like but don't usually have time for.
4. Practice your hobby - I've studied piano for about 15 years, so I love having a couple hours to sit down and play. Whether you paint, sew, scrapbook, do yoga...this is a nice time to be able to enjoy your hobby.
5. Cook or bake - Try something new! Whether you cook a meal or bake a delicious dessert, it's a lot of fun and you have a treat at the end. My favorite place to browse for recipes is www.epicurious.com, where they have everything you could possibly want (ok, maybe not everything, but definitely all things food-related!)
Have fun inside this weekend :)
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
All about the $$$
After a busy day yesterday, I looked forward to relaxing at home and watching a little TV. As I was channel surfing, I happened to come across a new show on Bravo--the Millionaire Matchmaker. This "reality" show is about a dating service in L.A. for men that are worth over $1 million. Patti, the matchmaker, works with millionaire men and sets up "VIP" events with 10-15 girls and 2 men, and the men can mingle and choose the women he wants to date.
I was offended by the show's focus on money, as well as the premise of the show. I actually turned it off at one point, but then found myself turning it on again later to see the end. I'm offended, yet fascinated by this materialistic and narcissistic culture that seems to be captivating the media and young adults today. I cannot picture myself choosing a mate based on money, or using money as the sole indicator of success. "Millionaire Matchmaker" made me think about what I'd look for in a potential "match," and how it differs quite a bit from what was being promoted on the show.
This was definitely a program I'd label as a guilty pleasure, but bordering on just plain guilty. I wanted to read a book afterwards to remind myself of my intelligence. What bothers me most is the notion the show is reinforcing that it's ok to "marry for money." The premiere episode showcased some women who didn't focus on getting an education or pursuing a career and are in the Millionaires Club because they want the expensive cars, houses, clothes, etc. I would much rather watch a show about women who were driven to pursue success on their own and have the dedication to get an education and find a career that utilizes their skills and talents--and their pursuit of the right men.
While I wouldn't label myself a feminist, I would say that I am someone who believes in my own talents, and works hard to be a successful career woman. I don't expect anyone to pay my way for expensive items. I enjoy nice things, but I'd rather meet a man that shares my beliefs, that can be my best friend, that I can relate to and that respects me more than a man that can buy me a Mercedes and a mansion.
I was offended by the show's focus on money, as well as the premise of the show. I actually turned it off at one point, but then found myself turning it on again later to see the end. I'm offended, yet fascinated by this materialistic and narcissistic culture that seems to be captivating the media and young adults today. I cannot picture myself choosing a mate based on money, or using money as the sole indicator of success. "Millionaire Matchmaker" made me think about what I'd look for in a potential "match," and how it differs quite a bit from what was being promoted on the show.
This was definitely a program I'd label as a guilty pleasure, but bordering on just plain guilty. I wanted to read a book afterwards to remind myself of my intelligence. What bothers me most is the notion the show is reinforcing that it's ok to "marry for money." The premiere episode showcased some women who didn't focus on getting an education or pursuing a career and are in the Millionaires Club because they want the expensive cars, houses, clothes, etc. I would much rather watch a show about women who were driven to pursue success on their own and have the dedication to get an education and find a career that utilizes their skills and talents--and their pursuit of the right men.
While I wouldn't label myself a feminist, I would say that I am someone who believes in my own talents, and works hard to be a successful career woman. I don't expect anyone to pay my way for expensive items. I enjoy nice things, but I'd rather meet a man that shares my beliefs, that can be my best friend, that I can relate to and that respects me more than a man that can buy me a Mercedes and a mansion.
Monday, January 21, 2008
A work of fiction
For someone who works as a writer, it's been a long, long time since I've written a piece of fiction. I've been thinking a lot about writing lately. I'd eventually like to write a novel, but perhaps it's best to begin with a few short stories, poems, or maybe a novella. I think I would end up creating a character that has a lot of similarities to me. They do say, "write about what you know." I wonder if I would turn out one of those chick-lit books that's fun, a la Bridget Jones. But I'd worry that it would really lack substance.
Today I visited Barnes & Noble on my lunch break. I discovered the New Fiction table as I walked in. Ever notice how placement of tables, placement of books and especially cover designs are truly the key in determining what books you pick up? I think it's fascinating how I end up finding the books that I do to read. It's usually sheer luck, or sheer product placement. That aside, I did pick up a book from the New Fiction table with a nice cover design that turned out to have a really interesting description. It's called "The Heroines" by Eileen Favorite. "The Heroines" is about a teenage girl who lives with her mother at the bed & breakfast they run. It turns out the bed & breakfast is frequented by some interesting guests--famous heroines from beloved novels, such as Scarlett O'Hara from Gone with the Wind. These guests visit and share their stories, dilemmas and more with the teenage girl and her mom, and in turn, create quite a commotion. What an amazing, innovative plot!
I haven't read this book yet, but I'm thinking about getting it. Just the summary has made me think about creating characters and writing. I've done some Internet research and found many, many resources for writers (and non-writers!) to begin their quest to create. The tough part about this process is that there are so many books, websites, magazines, etc. out there, you have to sift through and determine which ones suit your needs and then be sure they are from a legitimate source. It really is a Pandora's Box of sorts, and I'm just beginning my search.
One resources is a magazine called "Writer's Digest." This magazine has advice for writers of several different genres, business information, inspiring stories from other writers and more.
The Internet itself has many online communities for writers, which could be a good way to get ideas, brainstorm, etc.
There are numerous books published on writing fiction. These can be found online or in bookstores. Often if you go to a website such as Amazon.com or Borders.com, you can see customer ratings before you buy.
Some authors and writing professionals hold writing workshops. These vary by community, and can be quite expensive, so do your research first.
Finally there are university and community college courses to enroll in that focus on fiction writing and sometimes specifically novels, short stories, poetry, biography, etc.
I think I will begin with browsing the Web for some writing exercises and maybe then picking up a book. I don't yet have the time to begin a workshop or course, but I would love for this to be a hobby, especially during the cold winter months here in Chicago.
Today I visited Barnes & Noble on my lunch break. I discovered the New Fiction table as I walked in. Ever notice how placement of tables, placement of books and especially cover designs are truly the key in determining what books you pick up? I think it's fascinating how I end up finding the books that I do to read. It's usually sheer luck, or sheer product placement. That aside, I did pick up a book from the New Fiction table with a nice cover design that turned out to have a really interesting description. It's called "The Heroines" by Eileen Favorite. "The Heroines" is about a teenage girl who lives with her mother at the bed & breakfast they run. It turns out the bed & breakfast is frequented by some interesting guests--famous heroines from beloved novels, such as Scarlett O'Hara from Gone with the Wind. These guests visit and share their stories, dilemmas and more with the teenage girl and her mom, and in turn, create quite a commotion. What an amazing, innovative plot!
I haven't read this book yet, but I'm thinking about getting it. Just the summary has made me think about creating characters and writing. I've done some Internet research and found many, many resources for writers (and non-writers!) to begin their quest to create. The tough part about this process is that there are so many books, websites, magazines, etc. out there, you have to sift through and determine which ones suit your needs and then be sure they are from a legitimate source. It really is a Pandora's Box of sorts, and I'm just beginning my search.
One resources is a magazine called "Writer's Digest." This magazine has advice for writers of several different genres, business information, inspiring stories from other writers and more.
The Internet itself has many online communities for writers, which could be a good way to get ideas, brainstorm, etc.
There are numerous books published on writing fiction. These can be found online or in bookstores. Often if you go to a website such as Amazon.com or Borders.com, you can see customer ratings before you buy.
Some authors and writing professionals hold writing workshops. These vary by community, and can be quite expensive, so do your research first.
Finally there are university and community college courses to enroll in that focus on fiction writing and sometimes specifically novels, short stories, poetry, biography, etc.
I think I will begin with browsing the Web for some writing exercises and maybe then picking up a book. I don't yet have the time to begin a workshop or course, but I would love for this to be a hobby, especially during the cold winter months here in Chicago.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Winter Hours
As a communications professional who spends most of her day (and night!) running from place to place and event to event, I don't always have the time to shop during "peak hours"-- right after work or a weekend afternoon. So this week, I trekked over to the H&M on Michigan Ave. a weekday evening around 8 p.m. Their website said they are open until 9:30, giving me plenty of time to browse through the fashionable bargains I've come to know and love from this store. To my surprise when I arrived, they were already closed! Apparently they didn't update their "winter hours" on their website. Hmmph. How frustrating.
Chicago is definitely a city that goes partially dormant during the winter season. You see less people on the street and stores and restaurants close earlier. From a business standpoint I suppose it makes sense: less foot traffic=less sales. Why pay employees to keep stores open when you're not making as much money? Plus, it is f-r-e-e-z-i-n-g here. I won't deny it. I understand why lots of people want to stay in. BUT, from my perspective, I live downtown in a big city, and I expect that non-stop hustle bustle. I appreciate late hours, diverse people, ethnic food, eclectic boutiques, the works!
I recently saw an article in the Style Notes section of Style.com called "Open Society" about around-the-clock hotspots. From gyms to Internet cafes to hardware stores, many big cities have 24-hour locations of places people like to go, even at 3 a.m. I'm sure Chicago has a few "all nighter" spots, but they're certainly not widespread. In fact, a grocery shopping trip to Jewel or a Starbucks coffee run seem to be the only late-night/early morning activities I can come up with. Sometimes what a girl wants is to buy a dress at 9 p.m. on a Saturday night. Or a last-minute mani/pedi. Even a pair of heels in that obscure color--on a Sunday evening.
Are most Chicago women just better at scheduling time for beauty and fashion than I am? Or am I just continuously overbooked? Maybe I shouldn't complain. I remember while living in Europe I had more episodes of the dreadful store-closed situation than I do here. But fashion doesn't stop! Does it? Should it be spontaneous and last-minute and convenient, like those rain ponchos or pac-a-macs that popped up at Milan's Fashion Week due to the weather, but became the "it" accessory? Or should it be rehearsed, thought out and even a little painful, like a pair of hand-made stiletto heels that are too high, took 2 months to ship from Italy but yet make your legs look stunningly long and beautiful?
Chicago is definitely a city that goes partially dormant during the winter season. You see less people on the street and stores and restaurants close earlier. From a business standpoint I suppose it makes sense: less foot traffic=less sales. Why pay employees to keep stores open when you're not making as much money? Plus, it is f-r-e-e-z-i-n-g here. I won't deny it. I understand why lots of people want to stay in. BUT, from my perspective, I live downtown in a big city, and I expect that non-stop hustle bustle. I appreciate late hours, diverse people, ethnic food, eclectic boutiques, the works!
I recently saw an article in the Style Notes section of Style.com called "Open Society" about around-the-clock hotspots. From gyms to Internet cafes to hardware stores, many big cities have 24-hour locations of places people like to go, even at 3 a.m. I'm sure Chicago has a few "all nighter" spots, but they're certainly not widespread. In fact, a grocery shopping trip to Jewel or a Starbucks coffee run seem to be the only late-night/early morning activities I can come up with. Sometimes what a girl wants is to buy a dress at 9 p.m. on a Saturday night. Or a last-minute mani/pedi. Even a pair of heels in that obscure color--on a Sunday evening.
Are most Chicago women just better at scheduling time for beauty and fashion than I am? Or am I just continuously overbooked? Maybe I shouldn't complain. I remember while living in Europe I had more episodes of the dreadful store-closed situation than I do here. But fashion doesn't stop! Does it? Should it be spontaneous and last-minute and convenient, like those rain ponchos or pac-a-macs that popped up at Milan's Fashion Week due to the weather, but became the "it" accessory? Or should it be rehearsed, thought out and even a little painful, like a pair of hand-made stiletto heels that are too high, took 2 months to ship from Italy but yet make your legs look stunningly long and beautiful?
Thursday, January 3, 2008
Great in '08
The holidays have come and gone. I enjoyed my time back in the Detroit area, visiting family and friends. I received some nice gifts from my family--a great winter coat, a new toaster (desperately needed since mine wouldn't stay on for more than two seconds at a time), a ficitional novel about Jane Austen's life--I'm a big fan of her books, and an even bigger fan of the BBC adaptation of "Pride & Prejudice" (wow that Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy!), but I'm not sure if I'll like a novel about her life. It's sort of like that movie that came out, "The Jane Austen Book Club." I haven't seen it yet, but I don't know if I'd like to see a movie about fans of Jane Austen. I shouldn't judge a book by its cover though (no pun intended), so we'll see.
I also received some jewelry, which is quite pretty. But it doesn't compare to what I finally decided on for my mom: a pair of moissanite martini stud earrings. She loved them! I had to convince my dad to pitch in with me to buy jewelry, but I knew how much my mom loves it and would be overjoyed to receive a gift of sparkly earrings. Plus if we would've bought the same thing in diamonds, well, we couldn't have. That would be way too expensive. But we were able to get 2-carat total weight moissanite jewels, which shine even more than diamonds. The best part--she let me borrow them for New Year's Eve! I'll have to post a picture or two sometime soon.
I have to say I'm looking forward to 2008. My career is starting to take off, which is important to me since I've lived in Chicago for a few years now and have worked hard to meet people and network in my industry. Chicago, in fact, is an exciting place to be. There's a lot of new construction, the city has a bid in for the 2016 Olympics (www.chicago2016.org), new restaurants and lounges are opening all the time, and there's job opportunity here (even though I find PR/Media to be an extremely competitive field). I didn't really make any resolutions like "lose some weight" or "work out more", even though I plan on doing both. I think stating a resolution is a little cliche. I just go into each new year with hope for health, happiness, love and success for myself, my family and my friends. Happy 2008!
I also received some jewelry, which is quite pretty. But it doesn't compare to what I finally decided on for my mom: a pair of moissanite martini stud earrings. She loved them! I had to convince my dad to pitch in with me to buy jewelry, but I knew how much my mom loves it and would be overjoyed to receive a gift of sparkly earrings. Plus if we would've bought the same thing in diamonds, well, we couldn't have. That would be way too expensive. But we were able to get 2-carat total weight moissanite jewels, which shine even more than diamonds. The best part--she let me borrow them for New Year's Eve! I'll have to post a picture or two sometime soon.
I have to say I'm looking forward to 2008. My career is starting to take off, which is important to me since I've lived in Chicago for a few years now and have worked hard to meet people and network in my industry. Chicago, in fact, is an exciting place to be. There's a lot of new construction, the city has a bid in for the 2016 Olympics (www.chicago2016.org), new restaurants and lounges are opening all the time, and there's job opportunity here (even though I find PR/Media to be an extremely competitive field). I didn't really make any resolutions like "lose some weight" or "work out more", even though I plan on doing both. I think stating a resolution is a little cliche. I just go into each new year with hope for health, happiness, love and success for myself, my family and my friends. Happy 2008!
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