Monday, December 15, 2008
Gift ideas
Despite wanting to curl up on the couch with a good book, I have a lot of holiday gift shopping to do. Maybe you have yet to begin your holiday shopping excursion. I have a few ideas for you!
First off, I like to consider the gift recipient's interests. Is she a wine lover? If so, how about enrolling her in the wine-of-the-month club? Or, purchase her some unique wine glass tags.
Maybe she enjoys traveling. How about some cool and useful items from a specialty travel store like Flight 001? From decorative passport covers to in-flight toiletry kits, this place makes any traveler's journey more comfortable.
Maybe you're looking for something unique for the ultimate sports fan. Here's the perfect game room or kids' room decoration: A life-size wall image of a sports star. (The cool thing is that it peels off easily if you don't want it up anymore.) Check out Fathead for cool wall graphics. They also have graphics of celebrities, comics and more.
For the foodie among us, how about a spice gift basket from The Spice House? This series of stores may be based in the Midwest, but they have an amazing selection of every spice you could possibly want from all over the world.
Perhaps you have a mom, sister or friend that just loves jewelry. She might have diamonds, she might have sapphires, but does she have moissanite? This jewel have over two times the fire of diamond, is second overall in hardness and has much more brilliance than most gemstones. Best yet? It's more affordable than diamond! I've seen that more independent jewelers are now carrying moissanite, so chances even if you're not near a big store like JCPenney or Macy's (who carry the jewel nationwide), you could still find moissanite in your town. Check out the moissanite website that lists store locations.
Best of luck in your shopping endeavors! (And here's hoping you get to unwrap some good gifts, too!)
Friday, October 17, 2008
Favorite (and not-so-favorite) fall trends
I'm quite excited about this season's trends. Then again, there are always a few that just don't work for me. Here are my favorites:
1. Floral prints - Not just for grandma anymore! I think floral prints can be beautiful (when worn correctly) and now's the time to wear them.
2. Art prints - They're bold, but I really enjoy them. I think art prints are truly unique and make a modern fashion statement.
3. Rock - I'm so excited to wear black skinny pants with a pair of boots with plenty of metallic detail. If you think you can pull off the rocker look, then...rock on!
4. Metallic - I've always loved shiny things. In fact, a couple months back I purchased a silver Calvin Klein bag for this fall. It's perfect. I plan on implementing metallic details into every inch of my wardrobe whenever possible.
And...here are the not-so-favorites:
1. Slouchy - Oversized and baggy is not the most flattering look. I'm not a big fan of the Olsen twins slouchy style, and this is what I think of when it comes to this trend. I like clothes to fit, and maybe even be slightly big, but slouchy is taking it too far.
2. Open-toe boots - This is a bit of an oxymoron to me. A neat runway look, but just doesn't work on the street.
3. Mustard yellow - Autumn colors (forest green, burgundy) are popular now, and mustard yellow is among the group. But it just doesn't suit my personal taste.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Chicago's Fashion Focus
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Designer jeans: a "do" or a "dud"?
One of the best examples that comes to mind is designer jeans. Do we really need to spend $150 or even upwards of $200 on a pair of jeans? Our mothers and grandmothers would likely disapprove. But jeans today make a true fashion statement. With an increasingly casual work environment, and numerous celebrities popularizing high-end jeans, the fashion-minded are clamoring to find the latest "it" jean. And it doesn't come cheap.
But is it worth it?
On the "yes" side, I have to say I own several pairs of designer jeans. The fit is incredible, and I enjoy the styles offered. Plus, there's just something about wearing designer that makes you feel, well, special. I was concerned when I found a hole in one designer pair recently, but was pleasantly surprised when I emailed the company, I found out that they'd repair or replace my jeans for free. This, to me, makes it worth the higher cost.
On the "no" side, before I moved to downtown Chicago, I lived in a suburban area in Michigan. People still dressed stylishly, but the emphasis on high-end jeans was not so pronounced. It wasn't until I moved here that I felt the pressure. Even some of my good friends, who by no means had the extra money, still encouraged me that I needed these designer labels. Now I like them, and don't know if I could go back...but I survived before. I was fine without my designer jeans.
There are good points to both sides, but just like comparing drug store makeup to department store makeup, or a $20,000 car to a $50,000 one, it comes down to your priorities. Is it worth it to spend more and save less? Or are you willing to take the lesser of the two items (where the difference is often unnoticeable) to save money? It's up to you.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Beauty on a budget
I do think I'm a bargain-savvy individual, and I regularly buy sale items. I even purchase drug store makeup. (Hey, don't knock it...Great Lash mascara rocks, and has been an expert favorite for decades!) But there's a point where I just simply feel I do not have the $$$ to keep up with the trends and the designers and the spa appointments.
While I've become pretty dejected lately, I'm never one to completely give up. The thrill of the hunt is always a good motivator. And when I find an amazing bargain, I'm happy to tell all my friends about it. So I'm telling you about a few superb bargains that have come my way lately. First? Everyday Lip Gloss. Convenience is a major factor here--it's shiny, comes in several colors and is NOT sticky. Hooray! The bargain? $5 bucks! Plus, the company donates a portion of every sale to breast cancer research. Did I mention...it contains all natural ingredients? Can be shipped anywhere in the US? If you order four the fifth lip gloss is free? WOW!
My next bargain is my newest find. So new that the salon hasn't even opened yet, but you can be sure I will be there to test it out....it's almost too good to be true, so a girl's gotta see for herself. Blo Dri is a walk-in (yes, walk-in) salon specializing in blowouts and updos! You're in and out in under an hour. You can get a shampoo/style (and even the option for champagne, you lush!) for $50 bucks or less. What a phenomenal idea. What a good deal! It's in Chicago starting Sept. 22. Don't know if it's in any other cities yet, but I'm happy it's here.
Then there's my tried-and-true favorite bargain--moissanite. Bling without the huge bucks. But still the best quality around and more fire than a diamond too. Totally worth it (and you don't have to worry about contributing your money to dangerous mining practices).
You need a dress to go with that beautiful jewelry. I'm excited to try out Le Dress in Chicago. Apparently the prices are great too. Then again, there's always BlueFly--if you can buy your dress online, you get a good deal. For sure. But I've always been a fan of the Bloomingdale's sales racks.
Finally, I have to give a shout out to Hudson jeans. They were expensive when I bought them, but they quickly became my favorite pair. I was quite upset though when I found a hole in them in under two years of wear! Fortunately for me, I emailed Hudson directly and got a prompt reply that I can mail them my jeans, and they'll either repair or replace them free of charge. Good move on the company's part! I would not have bought a $100+ pair of jeans if I knew they'd get a hole in them, but now that the company will stand by their product, they will have a return customer in me. The jeans are seriously awesome.
Now I'm curious: what are your bargain beauty secrets?
Monday, September 15, 2008
Women's Shows
I happened to run across the shows as I was browsing online for moissanite. I found out Charles & Colvard, the company that markets and distributes the jewel, will be showcasing there for the first time at this upcoming week's show in Charlotte, NC. And, they'll be raffling off beautiful pairs of earrings too! I wish I could go. I imagine these shows are like temporary mega-malls with phenomenal sales and offers. Plus, I'm sure each company or boutique that's exhibiting is showing off their latest and greatest designs. What a cool idea! I wonder why there aren't shows like this in the Midwest.
Monday, August 11, 2008
A taste of fall
Not only does cooler weather make it easy to enjoy outdoor activities, like the many festivals that take place here in the city, but it helps get me ready for the transition to fall. I'm looking forward to all the autumn fashion trends. In fact, I just wrote an article on what's "in" this season, and I can't wait to begin wearing some of these cool weather clothes!
Some of this fall's trends include: plaid, deep red lipstick, wedge heels, and cinched waists/classic silhouettes. I'm especially excited about this last trend--it's right up my alley. I definitely have the body shape for this, so when it's "in," I'm all about it!
If you want to check out what's up-and-coming in the fashion world for this fall, I suggest Style.com (Vogue's online home), Instyle.com (the online version of InStyle magazine), and People.com, which offers a glimpse into what looks celebs are sporting.
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Do's and Don'ts
The "Do's and Don'ts" page has been around for a long time...and it's provided me with a chuckle here and there by what some women will actually wear when they shouldn't, and made me admire some women who have a great sense of style. But, I think it's important to always remember that it's about an individual's personal style, not the editor's. So I'm not afraid to disagree from time to time!
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Staycations
The staycation has its pros and cons in my opinion. For someone like me, living in Chicago, there are still an abundance of places and things I have not yet experienced. I could spend a week as a tourist here and still not see everything. But if you're from middle-of-nowhere America, and not within a quick train ride or drive to a big city, you'll have to get a little more creative.
Then again, the staycation may allow us to delight in the small pleasures in life...something Americans often have too little time (or too materialistic an attitude) to do.
Big city or small town, there are some activities we can all enjoy during a summer staycation:
- A hot afternoon in the backyard (or park), accompanied by a picnic. Make some lemonade, bring your favorite foods, a good book, a blanket or comfy lawn chair and you're all set. Bonus points if you a) turn on the sprinkler and run through it, or b) bust out the old Slip 'n Slide!
- A museum. Even in a small town you can discover interesting artwork, antiques and facts about your town's history. Learn something while enjoying the air conditioning...and general calmness of the museum atmosphere.
- A city-sponsored concert or movie. Another nice (and free!) opportunity to enjoy the outdoors and be entertained.
- A "theme" day. Come up with a theme and plan activities around it. Do you love Latin culture? Plan a cooking workshop during the day to learn how to make a Mexican feast; visit a museum or cultural center to learn about Latin culture in your area; enjoy Latin cuisine at your favorite local restaurant; end the night with Salsa dancing lessons. You get the idea.
- Volunteer. Get involved with a local nonprofit organization and donate your time. Many groups will accept one-day volunteers, so don't feel as if you have to be a lifelong member of the charity in order to volunteer...give them a call and find out how you can help!
- Plant flowers, work in the garden, or visit a farmer's market. This experience will bring you back to nature! You'll also be able to enjoy natural, chemical-free fruits and vegetables. Mmmm!
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Another round of cool websites
Yooz.com
Vintage Christian Dior for sale! Need I say more? My only complaint is that several items are already sold out. Here's hoping they replenish their stock soon!
Ideeli.com
The mecca of all websites for handbag fanatics. Join for free to get "second row" or pay a subscription to get "first row" to be in the first group to buy discounted designer bags.
BagBorroworSteal.com
I'll admit, at first I wasn't a big fan of this concept. Paying to borrow a designer accessory? I have too much pride to do that! Or do I? After reading the "How it Works" section, I just may be sold on the idea. The subscription price is only $60 a year, then add on a charge depending on what type of items you're looking for. The cool thing is you can keep borrowing an item for as long as you like (or buy it if you really enjoy it)...plus there are no late fees!
http://www.style.com/trends/news/content_6866
The Style.com website always has great features and coverage of upcoming trends, runway shows and more. This link directs you to an article on the life and work of Yves St. Laurent, who recently passed away at the age of 71. What an amazing story! I appreciate the great detail within this article, not only about YSL's accomplishments, but about who he was as a person. A must-read about a true fashion icon.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Cool new websites
WhatisMoissanite.com
As readers of my blog know, I'm definitely a fan of moissanite jewels. This brand new site is a great place to go to get the facts...and a comprehensive understanding of what moissanite actually is, and how it compares to other gemstones out there.
Chow.com
This (fairly) new site is like uncovering a virtual treasure chest for foodies! Complete with articles, tips, ideas, message boards, stories, and yes...recipes, I'm excited to really get to know this site. And the food suggestions on it ;)
LinkedIn.com
The most professional of networking sites, anyone in the PR/media realm should check this out! A great way to connect to old colleagues, classmates, friends, etc., you can also search for jobs, post industry-related questions and answers and more.
Etsy.com
All handmade goods for sale! Arranged in several different categories, this is the place to go to find one-of-a-kind stuff.
HelpaReporterOut.com
Don't know how long Peter's been at it, but one Mr. Peter Shankman is giving ProfNet a run for its money...literally, with a free listing of queries from media for PR/publicity professionals to answer. Two points to note: Subscribers will eventually get hooked on Peter's daily musings about his adventures (I did). Also, pitchers must be on-point, or else you get booted from the list. (Rightfully so...as a former editor, it is annoying to get misdirected pitches.)
TheseBootsAreMadeforStalking.com
A friend-of-a-friend began this blog a year or two ago. Unabashed Hollywood gossip with a Windy City angle! Who had the exclusive on the Jessica Simpson/Tony Romo spat? This site. No Hollywood source would be able to comment on Romo's whereabouts in Chicago...we may be the Second City, but we get the celebs too!
Friday, May 16, 2008
Inspiration for getting healthy
Eat Healthy!
Some summer recipes that look delicious and are health-conscious (thanks Epicurious.com for offering a healthy menu tab!)
Pan Seared Salmon on Baby Arugula
Smoked Turkey, Black Bean, Bell Pepper and Corn Salad
Herb Roasted Eggplant with Tomatoes and Feta
Green Bean and Hazelnut Salad
Grilled Portabella and Arugula Burgers
Asian Chicken Salad with Snap Peas and Bok Choy
Peach and Tomato Gazpacho
And for the sweet-tooths out there:
Blueberry-Orange Smoothie
Asian Fruit Salad with Papaya-Mint Sauce
Mini Chocolate Cupcakes
Strawberry Buttermilk Ice
Chocolate Angel Food Cake with Fruit and Maple Yogurt
Grilled Nectarines with Honey Balsamic Glaze
Three Grape Sorbets
Mocha Chip Gelato
Lose Weight!
I found an online weight loss calculator that how long it will take, how many calories you need to burn, etc. to reach a goal weight. It also has a calories burned calculator and other tips: http://www.caloriesperhour.com/. It's free!
I plan on starting a food diary that goes over how much I really eat in a day. (I think I will be surprised, and not in a good way.) For $9 a month, you can log this scary information online at http://www.myfooddiary.com/.
Be Active!
Self.com and Shape.com have a lot of online content featuring workout ideas. Also check out Workoutsforwomen.com for a free library of stretches, a free newsletter, tip of the day, workout of the week and more.
I personally like jogging outside versus the indoor machine workout. Going outside changes things up a bit, and it's easy to find targets to say, "Okay, I'll run to the lightpost, I'll go a bit further to the stop sign," etc. It's a good way to push yourself and not stare at how far you've gone down to the hundredth of the mile (like you do, or at least I do, on treadmills).
Shop Healthy!
I've strayed from my usual healthy-shopping habits, mainly due to a lack of time. But especially in the summer, it's easy to enjoy fresh fruits and vegetables. I read somewhere that you should shop on the perimeter of the grocery store--this is where you find produce, fresh meats, dairy, etc. You avoid the boxed dinners and preservative-filled items this way. It really works!!
Of course, the "shop healthy" term also takes on a new meaning when you consider the green movement. I've been trying to incorporate this more into my life recently. I'm using cloth bags whenever possible to shop. I just bought a roll-up bag that is only about an inch around when compact, but turns into a big bag when opened. Plus, it's waterproof, durable and hand-washable. Hooray! There are also a lot of cute cloth bags out there. Enviro-tote.com has a great selection, and you can have the bags printed with a company or organization logo!
The "shop healthy" idea can be taken into the fashion world, too. Certain designers, like Stella McCartney, have a focus on organic materials. Some people choose to shop vintage and resale to do their part in recycling what's already been made (plus, there are some great vintage pieces out there too!). It helps to know your stuff and do a little research. Once you're aware of how things are made, or the ethical practices behind manufacturing or mining, you may choose an alternative to avoid participating. Moissanite is the perfect choice to avoid the questionable ethics surrounding the diamond mining trade, for example. Moissanite has over 2 times the fire of diamond, is nearly colorless and just as brilliant...plus it's a fraction of the price! Sometimes it pays off to do a little research! You end up with something equal or better and you're saving the earth and the people that inhabit it.
So I got a little off-track from my weight-loss/get-in-shape post, but to truly be healthy I believe you need to take a look at all aspects of not only your life, but life all around you too. How's that for inspiration! It feels good just thinking about being healthy.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Getting in shape for summer
Now that summer is dangerously near, I'm nearing panic mode...I definitely need to work out and change some eating habits! The problem is, while it is nicer outside (making it simpler to work out), I don't have a lot of time. Hence carry-out, ready-made foods and even eating out during dinner meetings.
I'm now officially on the hunt for time-saving, sure-fire ways to get into shape and get back on track with healthy eating. Any suggestions? I'll be posting my findings soon!
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Rainy days
Something about rain makes me analyze things more. I like to listen to depressing music and contemplate the difficulties or ambiguities of life. Elton John said it (or sang it I guess)--sad songs say so much. There's something about this melancholy state of being that takes over during a rainstorm , and it seems to be almost enjoyable, oddly enough.
Is it just me? Unless it was something pre-planned, I'll likely avoid a cheery activity. I much prefer to brood over a glass of wine. To drive my car a long distance, listening to sad music while it sprinkles outside. To rent a movie that is about unrequited love. To visit an art museum by myself and slowly take in each of the especially tragic pieces.
And somehow, amongst this strange, dark attitude, I'm a little happier--and the next sunny day I'm back to beautiful frivolity.
Monday, April 28, 2008
Snowflakes in April
While I may be stuck inside here at my computer, I can do some Internet surfing for this year's trends in swimwear.
A great spot to start is EverythingButWater.com, which has a section dedicated to "swimwear knowledge." This can help you determine what types of fabric, support, color, style, etc. you're looking for in a suit.
They also have a page on trends for 2008, though it's not too specific. After doing a little more research, it seems that metallics are big (though I'd personally watch out for ugly 1980's styles... this plus metallic fabric = cheap-looking retro disaster!). Geometric and ethnic prints are definitely popular this season. If you're looking for a solid color, go after jewel tones such as purple or emerald. Classic black is making a comeback (did it ever go out of style?), as is the one-piece. Modernize a one-piece swimsuit with creative cut-outs and other variations. Perhaps this one-piece trend is right up my alley if I don't quite meet my fitness goals in time...
I think I love accessorizing my swim/beach outfit just as much as I do picking out the swimsuit itself. This year, I'll keep my cover-up simple (perhaps a solid color, short dress). I'll add a pop of color with a bright beach bag, maybe with an ethnic print. Metallic gladiator sandals are also on my list, and I'll top it off with some oversize sunglasses.
Now, if only it would stop snowing...
Monday, April 14, 2008
Spring is here
Now that spring is here, and warmer weather is surely on the way, I'm excited for a few things. Namely:
1. Outdoor dining - This is a HUGE hobby for local residents. As soon as it's sunny and about 50 degrees, restaurants start to set up their outdoor tables, and hungry (or thirsty) Chicagoans flock to them like moths to a flame. It's a great way to people-watch and enjoy a couple hours outdoors (something we've longed for since the first snowfall).
2. Festivals - Chicago is known for festival season! Music, food, booths selling various wares from clothing to jewelry to very weird oddities, Chicago's festivals have a lot to offer - including lots of people. Check out this comprehensive festival guide.
3. Summer Fashion - Can't wait for flowing skirts, sundresses, sunglasses and sandals!! (And did I mention no winter coats?) I love checking out the latest trends at Style.com.
4. The beach! - A nice getaway from the hot downtown streets, Chicagoans flock to the many Lake Michigan beaches. My favorites (plus, the closest to me) include North Avenue Beach and Oak Street Beach. Learn about them all on the Chicago Park District's website.
Monday, March 24, 2008
"Brilliance of Me"
As I mentioned in a previous post, I purchased some moissanite earrings for a little gift for myself for Valentine's Day--and I love 'em ;) After checking out Charles & Colvard's website for a few tips on how to clean my earrings, I came across their new addition--a website that reaches out to women. It's called BrillianceofMe.com and I have to say, I really like it. There are articles on what's new in fashion, zodiac profiles (which I'm excited about, because I'm an Aries and my profile will be coming up soon!), a section that features very successful women, a photo contest and more.
I always like learning about new websites that have valuable, interesting and entertaining content (especially if it's about beauty or fashion), so I thought this time I'd pass this one on so other people can access it. Check it out!
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Four-lettered word: DIET
Now, there's a big special event coming up in exactly 4 weeks, and I need to look good. So I have 4 weeks to really seriously eat well and exercise. But I can't help but think there may be a few little diet secrets out there that could help me. (I can stick with it for a few weeks, anyway, right?)
Conveniently, I found a Time Magazine article that highlights "10 Notable Diet Books of 2008." What makes them notable, I wondered? Notable in a good way, as in they're effective, or notable as in they're just interesting (but could be complete nonsense)? I read and found out.
The article doesn't actually pass too much judgement on these books, instead, the reporter gives a brief description of each book and writes a couple sentences about what kind of weight loss the books inspire their readers to achieve. For example, the "Eat This, Don't Eat That" book is mainly for men who eat fast food and just want some "healthier" fast food - Big Mac instead of Whopper. Ha. The "Skinny Bitch in the Kitch" is the next edition of last year's diet craze made popular by Victoria Beckham--so, this one's probably for women who follow Hollywood happenings. The "Women's Health Perfect Body Diet" seems like a smart approach to your overall best health, including exercise six days a week.
This article didn't quite inspire me to pick up any one book in particular. Instead, I think I'll head to Barnes & Noble during my lunch hour tomorrow and browse through the health & diet section--it can't hurt to skim a few books for a little motivation! If that doesn't work, I guess I'll just post a "fat" picture of me on my fridge. Uggh. I haven't done that before, but I bet it's effective!
Friday, February 29, 2008
la version francaise
I lived in Paris for two months, and in Geneva, Switzerland for three months, and the fashion sense in Europe is unreal--Paris especially. Never have I seen so many people "mismatch" and have it look good. Americans have such an obsession with matching--I think it's due to the overwhelming amount of malls, chain stores and corporate fashion folks telling us what to do and how to dress versus us developing our own sense of style. I noticed when I moved to downtown Chicago from the suburban Detroit area that my looks became more urban, and I definitely shopped more at boutiques and picked up things to wear that I wouldn't have before.
While my staple is black (it's like a classic bad habit--so bad but so good), I'm hoping to gain inspiration from Une Fille Comme Moi and invoke some unexpected color combos into my wardrobe very soon!
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
My blog search
I didn't have to look far to find an interesting blog. In fact, I was already somewhat reading it through the Style.com distribution list. It's called The Sartorialist. The author (Scott Schuman, former director of men's fashion at Bergdorf Goodman) began by posting photos of people on the street in New York with interesting style. It appears I'm not discovering something new, since this blog has been featured in numerous articles and was named as one of Time Magazine's top 100 design influencers. You can even read about the blog's history in a Wikipedia listing.
I love the high quality of photographs on this blog, and the thought behind them. The Sartorialist really finds individuals with an unmistakable sense of original style that transcends what most Midwesterners are accustomed to seeing on the street. I suggest you check it out.
Realizing I've been behind in my fashion blog reading, I just Googled "top fashion blogs" and came across this list of the top 50 fashion blogs in the U.S. posted by fashioniq.com. I've found quite a few that I like, including the Frugal Fashionista, which takes celeb photos and deconstructing their looks piece by piece, giving readers photos of items available to create each look at a more affordable price. Of course, Second City Style (shout out to my Windy City!) is great too.
Now, I have some new reading material that will allow me to people-watch and fashion-find simply by surfing the 'Net :)
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Online's just fine
But alas, I've run across a problem. Not only do I work full-time and belong to several professional associations, meaning I have to fit in time to shop on odd evening/weekend hours with everyone else, but it's C-O-L-D here! Chicago hit a high of 10 degrees today. 10! I'm thinking it might be more convenient to take my shopping habit online, at least for now.
I've purchased flights online, ordered take-out, RSVP'd for events, but never have I shopped online for my wardrobe. Hmm. My first worry (probably the same as that of all first-time Internet shoppers) is that the clothing won't fit and I'll have to return or exhange it, meaning there's more hassle involved. Aside from that fear, I think I can move forward and begin this process.
I've decided to examine some of the most well-known online shopping sites that carry the kind of items I seek: Zappos.com, Bluefly.com and Overstock.com. Here are some basic stats for each:
ZAPPOS -
Carries women's/men's/children's clothing, shoes, bags and accessories.
Free shipping in U.S.
365-day return policy.
Free returns.
24/7 customer service
BLUEFLY -
Carries women's/men's/children's clothing, shoes, bags, accessories, housewares, linens.
$7.95 flat-rate shipping in U.S.
90-day return policy.
OVERSTOCK -
Carries women's/men's/children's clothing, shoes, bags, accessories, housewares, linens, furniture, electronics, sports, books.
30-day return policy.
$2.95 shipping.
Best-price guarantee.
Ok, now on to the next test: How easy is it to search for specific items? I tried to search for high heels in red, size 9.
ZAPPOS: By far Zappo's has the largest selection of red high heels in size 9. Pretty simple to refine your search. I was quite amazed they have a search option for vegan heels!
BLUEFLY: I love the many ways you can search on Bluefly. By size, by color, by designer...and you can refine your search by each of these parameters as well, and also by newest arrival. The only downside is when I refined my red high heel to size 9 and to a pump, there were only three choices! Boo.
OVERSTOCK: Overstock had a bigger selection of red high heel pumps in size 9, but finding them was quite a bit more difficult. The shoe menu is listed under clothing, and the type is quite small. The ease of the search was not really there, but the selection was nice.
In my simple analysis of these three sites, I would probably begin my Internet shopping with Zappos. Does anyone out there have any experience with these sites? Are there other sites I should take a look at?
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Chick Flick
Wikipedia defines a "chick flick" as: Chick flick (also "chick's flick") is slang for a movie, usually a romantic, contrived comedy, that appeals to the stereotypical tastes of the female gender.
That's very depressing! I agree, chick flicks can be pretty dumb, and quite predictable, but that can be one of the reasons we love them. They're a break from real life. They're easy to enjoy. The other reason I imagine women like chick flicks is that we can relate to the main character. Who doesn't love the unlucky Bridget Jones after finding out our boyfriend was cheating on us? Or when we're hopelessly single and lonely? Who doesn't imagine themselves hating, er, loving the beautiful, brooding Mr. Darcy in Pride & Prejudice? These two books/movies alone span 100 years...and we're still hooked.
I thought I'd google "chick flicks" and see what comes up. Right at the top I found "50 Greatest Chick Flicks." This site lists the 50 films chosen in a 2004 article in Oprah Magazine. The funny thing is I've only seen about 10 of them! Perhaps this is a good source for some good movies. And they aren't all mindless, silly ones either--there are some real classics here.
Tonight, I plan to watch either "Becoming Jane" or "The Jane Austen Book Club." I want to see "Atonement," but I'll wait until DVD I think. I'd like to stay in the comfort of my home in front of my own TV.
Any recommendations out there on good chick flicks I may have overlooked?
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
One Day Away...
I'll be busy at work--this week we have a lot of projects to complete. I think I'll go home and hit the gym, then perhaps have dinner and watch some chick flicks. Yes! One of my favorite hobbies for when I'm alone.
I did notice on Metromix.com (a young Chicagoan's favorite place to look up fun things to do) that they have an article suggesting things to do on Valentine's Day when you're single.
I wonder how many single women will wallow in their aloneness vs. go out and have a fun ladies night with the girls. Either way, I'll enjoy the evening. Ooo! Can't forget--I'll go shopping after work for the beautiful moissanite earrings I've been eyeing for the past couple months. Forget the gym! This girl's gotta shop :)
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Valentine's Day gifts: To me, from me
This year, I think I'll stop wondering (ok, obsessing) over whether or not I'll get a V-Day gift from someone special. It's about time I just buy something for myself. Valentine's Day is about love, and I really love myself. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true. I work hard and do so much, I might as well reward myself. Plus, what better way to stay a happy single on a "couples" day than to go shopping?!?

Now I need to choose what to buy. As you all know, I've been eyeing my mom's moissanite earrings. In fact, they're my top choice for my little gift to myself. I checked the price, and they're on sale at JCPenney. They're also available at a number of different retailers, so I'll have to browse to see what style I want. But I think I'll go with the classic stud earring. What do you think? They're pretty gorgeous. I think I'd be happy even without a man with these earrings on V-Day ;)
Now, I can't say these are my only option. I also need a black bag, preferably a designer handbag. I've been really picky, though, and I can't quite find what I want just yet. I want medium-size doctor bag style in black leather with some metail detailing. Hmm. It also has to zip on the top (living in the city, you never know who'll try and stick their hand in your bag and reach for your wallet). This "self-gift" is highly dependent on if I can find what I want.
Finally, I'd like to go on a trip. But I think I'll hold off on this one until my birthday in a couple months. My job offers a vacation day on all employee's birthdays! Plus I have some vacation time to take off also. Maybe a long weekend to Vegas? Sure would beat this awful snowy windy Chicago weather :(
I'm curious. Are any of you ladies out there getting yourself a Valentine's Day gift? If so, what are you purchasing?
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Super Bowl parties can be fun for women too!
The thing is, Super Bowl parties tend to be so masculine, even though a lot of times there are many women present too. So how can we even things out? Do we have to drink beer, ogle the cheerleaders and scantily clad women in the lingerie bowl, and belch loudly upon finishing our chips & dip? There must be another way!
A few years ago, a friend gave me a book of retro-fab women's cocktails. One of them was an anti-Super Bowl beverage (don't remember the name right now, but it looked good!). With the big game coming up this weekend, I just thought about the book and decided this might be a good time to elaborate on ways to keep the day fun but also feminine.
First off, it's definitely an occasion for casual attire, but you don't have to sacrifice style! I think jeans are an absolute must, but don't be afraid to pair them with some fun heels (check out this delightful example), and don't forget a jersey made for women! Here's a NY Giants jersey, because they're the team I'm rooting for. Not that into one team or the other? Keep it neutral with a regular top in a fun color. Hot pink? Sure, why not! Finally, don't overdo it on the jewelry, but there's still a way to add a little sparkle to that sporty outfit--how about these versatile hoops? Looks like they're on sale too. A good buy to wear over and over again.
Next, let's address the food and drink situation. As much as you may want to just go with beer/pizza option (which is fine, by the way), if you're hosting, you may want to reconsider. Adding a few more options for your girlfriends is a considerate move they're sure to thank you for (especially if they're still trying to stick to a New Year's no-junk-food resolution!). Think about adding some a fun, fruity punch, so you don't have to constantly mix drinks, a lo-cal club soda option, and a couple more healthy dishes, like this festive salad or these veggie tacos minus the sour cream - yum!
Finally, how are you going to spend all those hours? Are you and your girlfriends actually going to watch the whole game? Maybe. But if not, here are some ways to pass the time:
- Make some bets: guys versus girls.
- Turn halftime into game time! Bring out your favorite board game and play.
- Manicures, anyone?
- Bake some brownies to enjoy during the second half!
- Once the game is up, you don't have to sit and listen to the guys recap the entire game. Pop in your favorite chick flick and turn it into a girls' night.
Here's hoping your Super Bowl party is super fun and feminine!
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Homebound!
I have compiled a Top 5 list of my favorite ways to enjoy the indoors. Since I'm a single gal, these ideas don't require anyone else to participate--they're just for you!
1. Take-out & a movie - By far the laziest of the top 5, this option requires little activity and is still oh-so-satisfying. For take-out, I enjoy a good pizza with red wine, or Thai/Chinese and white wine. For movies, I love a good chick flick that's not too predictible or mindless (if that's possible).
2. Catch up on reading - It's quite sad that reading is something I have to set aside time to do. But once I really get into a good book, I'm glued to it. I love suspense/mystery that have an element of history to them.
3. Mini-spa - Set up a mini-spa experience for yourself at home. Light some candles, play some relaxing music and enjoy a bath. Polish your nails, moisturize your skin, indulge in whatever little beauty routine you like but don't usually have time for.
4. Practice your hobby - I've studied piano for about 15 years, so I love having a couple hours to sit down and play. Whether you paint, sew, scrapbook, do yoga...this is a nice time to be able to enjoy your hobby.
5. Cook or bake - Try something new! Whether you cook a meal or bake a delicious dessert, it's a lot of fun and you have a treat at the end. My favorite place to browse for recipes is www.epicurious.com, where they have everything you could possibly want (ok, maybe not everything, but definitely all things food-related!)
Have fun inside this weekend :)
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
All about the $$$
I was offended by the show's focus on money, as well as the premise of the show. I actually turned it off at one point, but then found myself turning it on again later to see the end. I'm offended, yet fascinated by this materialistic and narcissistic culture that seems to be captivating the media and young adults today. I cannot picture myself choosing a mate based on money, or using money as the sole indicator of success. "Millionaire Matchmaker" made me think about what I'd look for in a potential "match," and how it differs quite a bit from what was being promoted on the show.
This was definitely a program I'd label as a guilty pleasure, but bordering on just plain guilty. I wanted to read a book afterwards to remind myself of my intelligence. What bothers me most is the notion the show is reinforcing that it's ok to "marry for money." The premiere episode showcased some women who didn't focus on getting an education or pursuing a career and are in the Millionaires Club because they want the expensive cars, houses, clothes, etc. I would much rather watch a show about women who were driven to pursue success on their own and have the dedication to get an education and find a career that utilizes their skills and talents--and their pursuit of the right men.
While I wouldn't label myself a feminist, I would say that I am someone who believes in my own talents, and works hard to be a successful career woman. I don't expect anyone to pay my way for expensive items. I enjoy nice things, but I'd rather meet a man that shares my beliefs, that can be my best friend, that I can relate to and that respects me more than a man that can buy me a Mercedes and a mansion.
Monday, January 21, 2008
A work of fiction
Today I visited Barnes & Noble on my lunch break. I discovered the New Fiction table as I walked in. Ever notice how placement of tables, placement of books and especially cover designs are truly the key in determining what books you pick up? I think it's fascinating how I end up finding the books that I do to read. It's usually sheer luck, or sheer product placement. That aside, I did pick up a book from the New Fiction table with a nice cover design that turned out to have a really interesting description. It's called "The Heroines" by Eileen Favorite. "The Heroines" is about a teenage girl who lives with her mother at the bed & breakfast they run. It turns out the bed & breakfast is frequented by some interesting guests--famous heroines from beloved novels, such as Scarlett O'Hara from Gone with the Wind. These guests visit and share their stories, dilemmas and more with the teenage girl and her mom, and in turn, create quite a commotion. What an amazing, innovative plot!
I haven't read this book yet, but I'm thinking about getting it. Just the summary has made me think about creating characters and writing. I've done some Internet research and found many, many resources for writers (and non-writers!) to begin their quest to create. The tough part about this process is that there are so many books, websites, magazines, etc. out there, you have to sift through and determine which ones suit your needs and then be sure they are from a legitimate source. It really is a Pandora's Box of sorts, and I'm just beginning my search.
One resources is a magazine called "Writer's Digest." This magazine has advice for writers of several different genres, business information, inspiring stories from other writers and more.
The Internet itself has many online communities for writers, which could be a good way to get ideas, brainstorm, etc.
There are numerous books published on writing fiction. These can be found online or in bookstores. Often if you go to a website such as Amazon.com or Borders.com, you can see customer ratings before you buy.
Some authors and writing professionals hold writing workshops. These vary by community, and can be quite expensive, so do your research first.
Finally there are university and community college courses to enroll in that focus on fiction writing and sometimes specifically novels, short stories, poetry, biography, etc.
I think I will begin with browsing the Web for some writing exercises and maybe then picking up a book. I don't yet have the time to begin a workshop or course, but I would love for this to be a hobby, especially during the cold winter months here in Chicago.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Winter Hours
Chicago is definitely a city that goes partially dormant during the winter season. You see less people on the street and stores and restaurants close earlier. From a business standpoint I suppose it makes sense: less foot traffic=less sales. Why pay employees to keep stores open when you're not making as much money? Plus, it is f-r-e-e-z-i-n-g here. I won't deny it. I understand why lots of people want to stay in. BUT, from my perspective, I live downtown in a big city, and I expect that non-stop hustle bustle. I appreciate late hours, diverse people, ethnic food, eclectic boutiques, the works!
I recently saw an article in the Style Notes section of Style.com called "Open Society" about around-the-clock hotspots. From gyms to Internet cafes to hardware stores, many big cities have 24-hour locations of places people like to go, even at 3 a.m. I'm sure Chicago has a few "all nighter" spots, but they're certainly not widespread. In fact, a grocery shopping trip to Jewel or a Starbucks coffee run seem to be the only late-night/early morning activities I can come up with. Sometimes what a girl wants is to buy a dress at 9 p.m. on a Saturday night. Or a last-minute mani/pedi. Even a pair of heels in that obscure color--on a Sunday evening.
Are most Chicago women just better at scheduling time for beauty and fashion than I am? Or am I just continuously overbooked? Maybe I shouldn't complain. I remember while living in Europe I had more episodes of the dreadful store-closed situation than I do here. But fashion doesn't stop! Does it? Should it be spontaneous and last-minute and convenient, like those rain ponchos or pac-a-macs that popped up at Milan's Fashion Week due to the weather, but became the "it" accessory? Or should it be rehearsed, thought out and even a little painful, like a pair of hand-made stiletto heels that are too high, took 2 months to ship from Italy but yet make your legs look stunningly long and beautiful?
Thursday, January 3, 2008
Great in '08
I also received some jewelry, which is quite pretty. But it doesn't compare to what I finally decided on for my mom: a pair of moissanite martini stud earrings. She loved them! I had to convince my dad to pitch in with me to buy jewelry, but I knew how much my mom loves it and would be overjoyed to receive a gift of sparkly earrings. Plus if we would've bought the same thing in diamonds, well, we couldn't have. That would be way too expensive. But we were able to get 2-carat total weight moissanite jewels, which shine even more than diamonds. The best part--she let me borrow them for New Year's Eve! I'll have to post a picture or two sometime soon.
I have to say I'm looking forward to 2008. My career is starting to take off, which is important to me since I've lived in Chicago for a few years now and have worked hard to meet people and network in my industry. Chicago, in fact, is an exciting place to be. There's a lot of new construction, the city has a bid in for the 2016 Olympics (www.chicago2016.org), new restaurants and lounges are opening all the time, and there's job opportunity here (even though I find PR/Media to be an extremely competitive field). I didn't really make any resolutions like "lose some weight" or "work out more", even though I plan on doing both. I think stating a resolution is a little cliche. I just go into each new year with hope for health, happiness, love and success for myself, my family and my friends. Happy 2008!